FEATURED STORY (12/30/09)









FACILITATING SKILLS TRAINING & PLANNING WORKSHOP 
held at San Vicente National High School, Butuan City on December 29, 2009 participated by the pioneering batch of Pure Love Volunteers was successful.

The main output of the activity is the formulation of goal and objectives for the year 2010.

GOAL:
By the end of the year 2010, Pure Love Network will be known globally having dynamic leaders, volunteers, and pledgers. Well appreciated by parents and highly endorsed by the Government, becomes successful and admired youth organization changing the lives of the young.

OBJECTIVES:
1. Enhance the website by regularly posting real-touching articles.
2. Conduct leadership and capability trainings and workshop.
3. Conduct massive promotion and recruitment of membership through the Love Forum and other similar activities.
4. Conduct Parent's Fora to establish close coordination with families.

5. Apply for Government accreditation.

Participants were Markeen Tero, Honey Marie Tulin, Shio Ann Chris Branzuela, Daisy Mangubat, Labelle Mae Bantiles, Jessa Salva, Cornelio Casilac, Jr., and Benjie Villaflor.

FEATURED STORY (12/25/09)



Premarital Sex -  Is it Right?
by 
Rizza Acero of Buenavista, ADN

"Is it ok to have premarital sex?" …

That is a common question among teens and engaged couples. Perhaps you are in a relationship that is progressing in that direction, but you're not sure what to do. In your mind, you are probably weighing the pros and cons of premarital sex. On the positive side of the scale, there is acceptance from your peers, hope for pleasure, and the fulfillment of sexual desires. The negative side of the scale carries the weights of morals, fear of pregnancy or disease, and guilt. How do these scales balance? What is the right decision? Let's take a look at some of the facts.

The Bible refers to premarital sex as “Fornication”. That's a word we don't hear much these days, so what does it mean? Fornication is sexual intercourse between people who are not married to each other.
Premarital sex is just as much of a sin as adultery and all other forms of sexual immorality. They all involve having sexual relations with someone you are not married to.

The Bible explains, "…The body is not meant for sexual immorality, but for the Lord, and the Lord for the body" (1 Corinthians 6:13). Verse 18 of this chapter goes on to say, "Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a man commits are outside his body, but he who sins sexually sins against his own body."


Premarital Sex - Is it Safe Physically and Emotionally?

Another consideration when deciding about premarital sex is safety. Did you know that 50% of the people who currently have HIV are between the ages of 15 and 24?

1. Using a condom only reduces the risk of contracting HIV by 85%. Condoms do not significantly reduce the risk of contracting other sexually transmitted diseases.

2. Sex is an emotional experience and it affects our lives in ways we don't understand. After engaging in premarital sex, many people express feelings of guilt, embarrassment, distrust, resentment, lack of respect, tension, and so much more.

Premarital Sex - What If It is Already Too Late?

If you have already engaged in premarital sex, you should make a commitment with God, your boyfriend/girlfriend, and yourself to remain sexually pure from this point on until marriage. Ask God for help and strength to remain sexually pure until marriage. God will provide the strength (Philippians 4:13) and grace to overcome the temptation to have sex, as long as you are willing and careful not to put yourself in a place of temptation.

FEATURED STORY (12/22/09)









If Only You Knew
by Christelle Bianan of ANHS

If only you knew,
how my heart overflows with love for you.
If only you could see
the way you fill my hopes and dreams.
You're the owner of my heart,
the ruler supreme.
Even in the dark of night,
I've only to think about you
to feel your loving light
and from this world I drift
feeling as if
I'll never touch the ground again...
If only you knew.
If only you could guess
how I hear your voice when others speak;
for you hold the key to my happiness,
and it's always you my soul seeks.
If only you could feel,
how your very presence
has the power to heal,
all the wounds inside me.
You've made me abandon
the pain of yesterday,
and you've shown me
that the past can no longer
stand in the way
of what I hope to achieve...
If only you knew.
If only you could realize
the way you've shown me
that it's better to give
than to take,
and whatever I do,
I do for your sake.
I'm willing to give you my all
and expect nothing in return.
But, oh how I yearn
for you...
if only you knew.

In my dreams,
I try to see you
and take in
your whole expanse--
from the beauty
of your smile
to the depths
of your soul
where an ocean swells.
I'm rebuilding you
out of pieces of clay,
with some illogical hope
that you'll materialize
out of the darkness.
The heart alone
can perceive these
dimly lit realities,
and trade longing
for patience.
And I'm living
on the hope
borne of these
dreams of you,
that we'll be
together soon.

FEATURED STORY (12/13/09): A BIZARRE LOVE


by Daisy "Yzay" B. Mangubat of SVNHS

First time I saw you, I felt that you will make a difference in my life. Yes It is true! - a strange feeling or a weird imagination - "I don't know" [Kah-OA naku uie]. You are a kind of guy who always turns the gloom into smile and change the loveliest world into a funniest and happiest sphere [char!] You know what? I really want to be your friend but I have no idea of how parallel ways will intersect each other; for there is no such rules of that in Math [unya kay dili mani Math?]. Your circle of friends are inversely proportional to mine, that's the reason why even though your a centimeter near to me yet your so far to accompany with. I just wish and hope that someday [puhon] there will be a linear bridge that will straightly connect you and me.

Time past, many things are changed - somewhat on... Evolution? [nee! murag unggoy paingon sa tao!] But my sensation unto you still stays. I just ignore it - believing it was only part of my unique senses [ehhh?]. World continues to rotate its orbit and revolves around the sun [Science huh!]. Until one night, you came to me - asking me to dance with you. [shock ko uie!]. I wonder what typr of force that pushes you towards me, or maybe it was just the effect of the cold temperature sorrounded us [kadtong JS vah! ulan bya 2 baha p gyud!] in that very second my heart pumped to its fastest beat even I'm very frozen in my displacement cause I'm shy to dance with you. Consequently, you showed an incomparable motion that lead us to the dance floor. We dances together - holding hands [uiE! kahinumdum pako!]. WE moved at a certain velocity depending how the rhythm of music travelled [char! murag Newton's LAw of Inertia!]

It was a vigorous Monday morning after the JS prom when a classmate came to me and revealed something about you [unsa kaha?] she said, you admire me [ hmmp... na garu!] I just smile then afterwards I laughed, a very foolish laugh as if I didn't care of what I've heard but deep inside I really appreciated of what you felt for me. I just hid it. [ana gyud na pa-char-char vah!] You also said to her that I'm beautiful especially during the prom [Duh! lanay ako atay!] but in that moment all I wanted was to be your friend and nothing more. [chur uie?]

We always meet during school days, I often catch you staring at me [ganahan fud ko!] Still I'm confuse! do you really admire me? If yes, then why is that your acting as if you don't know me, as if there's nothing happen to us - I mean the sweet dancing protion during the prom? [nangasaba nman cguro ko!jejeje]. If we meet in the canteen, in the campus' pathways and somewhere else in this world, you never ever say a word - even just one simple "Hi"- I don't understand! I'm highly aware that you are not quiet creature; the clown of your buddies, right? But why are you so silent in front of me? You're like a mute [duh!]. I thought we will become friends after the JS but I'm wrong [wrong jud dis?] 'coz your building a wall between us. Your pals and my friends kept on pushing us and you don't have any reaction [murag dili tao cah!]. The more I don't perceive you - the more I don't understand myself. I feel something special to you [nadevelop ko uie!] inspite of what characteristics you've shown to me [mao?]. Lately, I realized I'm falling in love with you! I felt jealous when I saw you close with a girl, the two of you were so sweet [kulang nalang amigason!] not only that, I am also hurt when I heard you said, you're inlove with someone else. I will kept on loving you even if you already rejected me and left me with an agony in my heart [hu hu hu!!! hatage jud ko ninyo ug candy!]. Honestly it is my first time to feel like this, the love and the pain inside is all b'coz of you [xure?]. You're my first love and first guy who hurt me this way [Duh! kevir!]. Actually, you're not my typical man, you drunk [ingon nila!] and you even smoke [ayna pag deny! kit-an taka!] ou're not so smart nor handsome [cute lang!]. In fact my mind opposes my heart but then I follow what my heart says [graveh naku kah martyr vie!]. I admit, I'm already losing myself because of loving you. I'm sinking deep pain [as in?]. But I will not fight it, I will just get exhausted for I know It's so very hard to move on and forget you, especially I see you almost everyday [pag ting-eskwela]. You can count on me anytime you want. My love is always there for you [graveh huh!]. I will wait for your special feelings to come back, but if not? I will continue suffering the pain until it hurts no more! [nackz!]. I believe I can survive! with the presence of our Almighty God. I know His there for me. He will ease and heal my broken heartache and will give me the best that I deserve to have [I love you Lord!].

Now I'm already aware why I felt something weird towards you when I first saw you. You realy make a difference in my life. As what I've said your the only guy who make me feel so much in love and pain. Your the one who let me see what true love means - it is unconditional and it can even sacrifice because of the desires in our hearts. Thanks for making me feel what kind of love that Jesus have on us.

"Jesus loves us unconditionally; He even sacrifice His own life to save us from sin."

FEATURED STORY (12/10/09)

Pure Love Network 
Made a History!




MEDIA RELEASE
FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE
09 December 2009
CONTACT: Katie Walker
540.659.4942|
kwalker@all.org
A.L.L.’S FIRST ASSOCIATE IN THE PHILIPPINES A NETWORK OF ‘PURE LOVE’
Washington, DC (09 December 2009) – American Life League welcomed its 106th Associate group this week. The Pure Love Network of Butuan City, Philippines, is a network of young people committed to promoting chastity in every school, campus and community throughout Butuan City.

American Life League president Judie Brown describes the Pure Love Network as “a very special organization.” Brown also commented, “Having visited Manila and the environs three times, I can tell you that this is going to be a growing, thriving organization. We are blessed to welcome them to American Life League’s family of personhood organizations.”

It was formed by Bonifacio Dumago, a social worker committed to teaching youth the simple message of Saint Paul’s First Letter to the Corinthians: Avoid immorality.

The Pure Love Network’s primary activity is the Love Forum, a prayer fellowship and forum for discussing moral and social problems that affect young people, including premarital sex, teenage pregnancy, abortion, sexually transmitted diseases and drug abuse. Its members encourage and pray for each other on a regular basis.
American Life League's Associate Program is a network of pro-life groups dedicated to one simple concept: All innocent human beings are to be protected and defended from the moment of creation until natural death.
American Life League was cofounded in 1979 by Judie Brown. It is the largest grassroots Catholic pro-life organization in the United States and is committed to the protection of all innocent human beings from the moment of creation to natural death.  For more information or press inquiries, please contact Katie Walker at 540.659.4942.
FOR MORE INFORMATION:

American Life League:
Associate Program
http://all.org/associates/
Pure Love Network:
http://purelovenetwork.blogspot.com/
# # #

_______________________________
Katie Walker
Director of Communication
American Life League
1179 Courthouse Road
Stafford, Virginia 22554
540.659.4942
kwalker@all.org
http://www.all.org/

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Pure Love Network Made a History!

MEDIA RELEASE
FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE
09 December 2009
CONTACT: Katie Walker
540.659.4942|
kwalker@all.org
A.L.L.’S FIRST ASSOCIATE IN THE PHILIPPINES A NETWORK OF ‘PURE LOVE’
Washington, DC (09 December 2009) – American Life League welcomed its 106th Associate group this week. The Pure Love Network of Butuan City, Philippines, is a network of young people committed to promoting chastity in every school, campus and community throughout Butuan City.

American Life League president Judie Brown describes the Pure Love Network as “a very special organization.” Brown also commented, “Having visited Manila and the environs three times, I can tell you that this is going to be a growing, thriving organization. We are blessed to welcome them to American Life League’s family of personhood organizations.”

It was formed by Bonifacio Dumago, a social worker committed to teaching youth the simple message of Saint Paul’s First Letter to the Corinthians: Avoid immorality.

The Pure Love Network’s primary activity is the Love Forum, a prayer fellowship and forum for discussing moral and social problems that affect young people, including premarital sex, teenage pregnancy, abortion, sexually transmitted diseases and drug abuse. Its members encourage and pray for each other on a regular basis.
American Life League's Associate Program is a network of pro-life groups dedicated to one simple concept: All innocent human beings are to be protected and defended from the moment of creation until natural death.
American Life League was cofounded in 1979 by Judie Brown. It is the largest grassroots Catholic pro-life organization in the United States and is committed to the protection of all innocent human beings from the moment of creation to natural death.  For more information or press inquiries, please contact Katie Walker at 540.659.4942.
FOR MORE INFORMATION:

American Life League:
Associate Program
http://all.org/associates/
Pure Love Network:
http://purelovenetwork.blogspot.com/
# # #

_______________________________
Katie Walker
Director of Communication
American Life League
1179 Courthouse Road
Stafford, Virginia 22554
540.659.4942
kwalker@all.org
http://www.all.org/

FEATURED STORY (12/06/09)



WHAT THE PLEDGERS SAY ABOUT THE LOVE FORUM?


Some comments from the participants regarding the LOVE FORUM last December 5, 2009 at San Vicente National High School, Butuan City.

Shio Ann: " Today's Love Forum is full of enjoyment. I shared lots of fun with my co-pledgers. I really want to invite many friends so that I can help them and they can learn more about life."


Princess Adelrina: " I learned lot's of information specially pregnancy. How to handle my self, and how to protect and heighten my dignity and integrity.I always put in mind that my chastity is the best gift I can give to my future husband."

Daisy: " It is very nice! although it is the 5th time attending love forum, I am still excited and not getting bored. I learn a lot of things. Every love forum I discover new information."


Benjie: "I learned many information that I can apply to my life like preserving my chastity. I really enjoying the love forum even though we're only few this time. I am also happy because there are new pledgers attending."

Karishia Sheena Layka: "I really appreciate it! I learned so many things today. Keep up Pledgers! I hope we can invite more friends next love forum."


Juvelyn: "It is so nice, it is my first time to attend this kind of activity. Maganda ang pagtuturo sa amin. I really appreciated it dahil nadagdagan ang aking kaalaman about love. The teachings will always echoing in my mind after the activity. I am happy because there are concern people who spend time to care and guide us."

Jessa Mae: "The topic we discussed are very good and inspired me to influenced other to preserve our chastity."


Reynalyn: "The love forum today is different from the previous, even though we're not so many, we are happy because there are 1st year students in our school who joined, I consider it a great achievements. I am also very happy seeing myself as a pledger."

Miraluna: " It is nice, bisan bag-o pako, I realize na nindot man diay ang love forum. Giganahan jud ko!"


Richard: "This is a first experience, masaya pala ang love forum...marami akong natutunan."

Shenna Mae: "Nakaka-iyak talaga pag iniisip mo ang mga mahal mo sa buhay. Masaya ang love forum."

Glenne: "Makakatulong sa mga kabataan paanong magmahal sa ibang tao na hindi mo pa kilala at maramdaman mo ang mga nararamdaman ng ibang tao."


Miriam: "Masaya ako at naiiyak din kanina lalo na during sa prayer and the song touches me...nakakatulong ito sa pagmamahal sa Diyos."

Marimar: " Masaya ang love forum dahil nakaka-intindi ako at nakakalungkot din at nakakaiyak pero masays pa rin dahil I pray my family."


Cherrylyn: " Maganda at na appreciate ko ang love forum. Maka relate ka din na ganun pala ang love na ganyan at makikita natin ang moral value ng 'LOVE'."

Noriey: "Ang love forum the best talaga dahil marami kang naiintindihan about love."


Angelica: "Exciting and fun. Maaring mailabas ang mga saloobin at ideya. Maraming matotohan ang mga kabataan. Masaya at hindi lang for love kundi pang God-loving. Makakagaan ng loob."

Dessiren: "I appreciated what we've done together with co-pledgers. This activity could bring us to become a good influence to others through out the years of our life. It give us more information and values that we may always bring. I like it and I really, really love it. Thank you."


Zosmthita: "Ang love forum is not only sharing about love, it includes ang mga panghitabo karon nga panahon or posible na mahitabo. Even though gamay ra ang naka-apil karon, enjoy gihapon kay daghan jud kag makat-unan. Then makahatag pud inspirasyon alang sa atong kaugma-on. Pure Love Network must be promoted to the teenagers, labi na sa mga teenager na weak."   






FEATURED STORY (12/04/09)

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 LAW OF LOVE
 by Rizza Acero of Buenavista, ADN


Did you know that the most important of Divine Laws is the 'law of love.' Put simply, "Love is Law, Law is Love." This amounts to the same thing as "the gift of giving" without the hope of reward or pay, or serving others. When you do the right thing for others you receive gifts in unexpected ways. Paradoxically, those who help you may not be those you help. The help you receive may come from surprisingly distant connections.


Emptiness
Does anyone see me for who I am? Why do I feel like I am walking this life alone?

Did you know that you were created with a need to be in relationship? Yet we often experience the pain of being alone, sometimes even in the middle of a crowd of people.



I want to share this short prayers to all...

"Dear Jesus, I need you to fill my void of emptiness and lack of purpose. Please forgive me of my sin and bring fulfillment to me. I surrender my heart to you and ask that you take control of my life now. Thank you."

FEATURED STORY (12/02/09

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GOD'S WONDERFUL CREATIONS
by Joanne Adormeo  of LNHS


Pre-marital sex and teenage pregnancies causing abortions are some of the factors that destructed the country's image (Philippines). These factors decreased one's dignity and had hindered lives to flourish and discover God's wonderful creations. These calls for something or someone that could prevent those life destructive deeds.

Pure Love Network is a very big help, with it's main advocacy "Preserving Chastity Until Marriage". It is a network making God the center. Man is the temple of the Holy Spirit. It should be always clean, free from sin. I believed that man was created to live, to prepare himself for the nest life - life after death, not to make him/herself sinful.

I know in the years to come, this network will produce clean, high-dignity and God fearing individuals.